that time goals can be discouraging during the inevitable coldstreak. As you gain skill, there will be periods where you sleep withmultiple girls in a short amount of time, followed by nothing forseveral months. A strong desire to accomplish your goal thatmotivates you to act is enough.

Beware

Before you dive in and read this book,I have to warn you that the journey is difficult and oftendisappointing. Is it worth it? Yes, without a doubt. The payoff foryou will be better quality women and more power and confidence to getthem. But it will not come without work on your part.

You will need to interact with a verylarge number of women in different situations and environments. It’snot enough to just talk to the women you normally come into contactwith at work or school―like a salesman you need to make cold callsto get leads, in the form of approaches. You will go to the bars andclubs and bookstores to meet women. You will talk to them everywhere,always practicing and experimenting. You will follow-through withthem, call them on the phone, spend money on dates, and try to bangthem. You will maintain your stable like a sheep herder maintains hisflock. You will put in your energy, your life-blood, into a game thatmay leave you mentally exhausted. You will deal with rejections,flakes, and temper tantrums that are negative and discouraging. Youwill spend time studying the game and taking notes, breaking downyour encounters with women. And you will spend time creating materialon your own. A large component in becoming successful with women istime. You will not turn into an player overnight. The best analogy Ican make to describe the game is body building. Within a short amountof time training you will see quick gains and experience fastconfidence boosts, followed by peaks and valleys where you lose orgain muscle mass depending on how motivated or healthy you are. There



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