judgments, dirty looks, opinions, or laughter is going to stop himfrom getting what he wants. He does not ask for permission. If hewants to have sex with a girl, he will use his knowledge and skillsto try to have sex with her. His actions stem from desire instead ofinsecurity. The alpha male does not qualify himself. He does notexplain his faults or failures. He accepts himself, for better orworse. He does not brag about his success. He does not need to bevalidated by a woman because he knows that she cannot give him whathe cannot give himself. Criticism or praise has only a temporaryeffect on him because he already has accepted his strengths andweaknesses. The alpha male does not care about what other peoplethink of him. He presents himself in a way that makes him feel mostcomfortable. He picks up on something because he likes it and it fitshim best, not because it’s a trend or something he is "supposed"to do. He does not look in the mirror every ten minutes to fix hishair. He does not concern himself with getting fake tans or body hairwaxes. The alpha male does not make apologies for being a man who hassexual needs. He does not hide his intentions with women, so thatthey know and are able to provide him with what he wants. If a womanis not comfortable with sex, he will move on and find one that is. Heis not going to wait for a woman to serve his needs. He is notconcerned if a woman rejects him in the bedroom―if he does not getit from her, he will get it from someone else. As a sexual being, heexpects women to be sexual as well.

The alpha male lives in his ownreality. He leads interactions in a way that he prefers bycontrolling the tempo and initiating the escalations. He believes itis in a woman’s nature to submit to a strong man. He understandsthat if he does not worry about his needs, then the girl will notworry about them either. He does not let the woman lead theinteraction because it will result in her getting what she wants