respect. One of the fastest ways to become alpha is to study one,just like how Jane Goodall would study the silverback in the wild.Watch how he interacts with people and take note not just of hiswords but how he says them. Since asking someone how they accomplishsomething is less valuable than observing it with your own eyes, youdon’t even have to talk to him personally to learn from hisbehavior.

Sometimes the only difference betweenalpha and beta males is the intent, not the behavior. For examplethey both can be seen paying for dates or holding a door open, butbeta males do these things to please and impress women, while thealpha male does them because they make him feel good or they helpachieve his goals. I don’t buy a drink for a woman on a date toplease her, I buy it to loosen her up. I don’t call in two daysafter getting her number because I’m afraid she will forget aboutme, I call because that is when I want to talk to her. The reason whyyou do things, your intent, is automatically subcommunicated towomen. A woman knows if you are trying to impress her or not.

In the celebrity world where the famousactors and musicians are making millions of dollars, why is that thata handful of guys such as Lenny Kravitz, Matthew McConaughey andLeonardo Di Caprio always get the hottest women? It can’t be theirmoney because all their other male peers have it too. And it can’tbe their looks because most of Hollywood is blessed with beautifulgenetics. It is because they are alpha males. Because of that theyhave their pick of the most beautiful women in the world.

Your Mind Is Slow

Once you start practicing the game andlearning from your experiences, you can make quick adjustments thatincrease your results immediately. But your mind is much slower tochange. It lags months behind your experience and needs constantreinforcement for the correct beliefs to stick. You can tell yourselfyou are willing to walk away a hundred times, but until you actually