The approach is the most importantpart of the game. If you master only one skill, it should be theapproach. No matter how much of a loser you are right now, learningto approach will automatically increase what you have gotten before.There are girls out there right now who will sleep with you, whileboth conscious and sober, but not until you approach them. Even ifyou approach with absolutely zero game, with not even the ability toconstruct a complete sentence, there is going to be at least one girlout of many who will bang you because you happened to catch her atthe right moment. Until guys set aside their insecurities andlimitations and accept that they need to get this part of their lifehandled, the fear of rejection is a big monster that looms in theback of their mind. Approaching a random girl without anyintroduction, completely cold, may seem insane, nerve-racking, andimpossible. The reason for these feelings is because men have evolvedto not approach. In the book Mean Genes, the authors reflect back tothe time when our ancestors lived in tribes of a few dozen people.Everyone in the tribe was connected in some way, so making a move ona certain girl without getting reciprocation back ensured you wouldbe gossiped about and ridiculed. At worst, approaching a girl who ishaving sex with a powerful member of the tribe meant ejection fromthe group and possible death. Therefore, it was a bad idea toapproach unless you were very sure the girl already liked you. Ourtribal history is millennia past, but men still operate as if welived in these small groups. Unless men get very positive signals