uncomfortable rejection I can think of is the head-turn when you goin for a kiss. This usually leads to a very awkward moment, more sothan when a girl blows you off during an approach. But now I believethe head-turn isn’t a bad rejection because it means you are notwasting kisses. If you never got rejected trying to kiss a girl, itmeans there are several girls you could have kissed but didn’t,only because you didn’t try. Rejection tells you that you arepushing to get all that you can. A man who doesn’t get rejected isone that is not reaching his true potential. Rejection also tells youexactly where you stand with a particular girl. There is no otherbetter way to tell if a girl likes you or not than by seeing if shedoesn’t mind your tongue down her throat. The information you getby taking the encounter farther is much more valuable than advice youmay receive from friends who don’t know all the subtle details ofthe relationship. In college during exam days I would hear a lot ofexcuses as tests were being distributed. People didn’t sleepenough, or they didn’t have time to study as much as they wanted. Alot of my classmates were scared that if they really studied hard andgave it their all―and still did poorly on the test―that it wouldbe a rejection of their intelligence. So they went through collegenever knowing the limits of their test-taking ability. This type ofprotective strategy only served to soothe their egos. Right now youhave to decide if you are going to concern yourself with protectingyour ego or maximizing your results. When you get rejected by a girl,there is only one thought that should be in your head: "It’s herloss." Even if you said the lamest shit in the world oraccidentally spilled your drink on her, it is still her loss. If youtripped in front of her and she laughed at you, it is her loss. Youneed to adopt this mindset for a few reasons. First, it prevents youfrom dwelling on bad encounters while there are still other