of enzymes, which act as catalysts to promote reactions thatotherwise wouldn’t happen on their own. Enzymes make things happen.For any chemical reaction to take place, it must get over this humpcalled the activation energy, which is a natural barrier thatprevents the original substance from converting to the final product.Getting over this hump is like pushing a rock over a hill―once itpasses the top, gravity takes over and it rolls down with ease. Thinkof approaching women as a chemical reaction with this big activationenergy. The enzyme is your brain, full of knowledge, and as time goeson, experience. As you build confidence and become capable, you lowerthe activation energy, turning the approach from something that neverhappens on its own to something that happens regularly. One way tolower the activation energy is to go out with a look that you feelcomfortable in. Each change that makes you feel more comfortable andconfident is probably not that significant on its own, but they allhave the cumulative effect of helping to push you over that hill. Ifthis barrier to approach didn’t exist, every guy would approachevery cute girl he sees.

Venues

While some venues are easier toapproach than others, women can be approached anywhere. There are norules that tell you where you can or cannot game, but when startingout you will probably do most of your approaches in bars or clubsbecause that’s where a large number of women tend to congregate.Bars and clubs are loud, smoky, and artificial, but they offer themost opportunity for practice. There are not many other places I cango to that has a dozen or two attractive women I can approach. Barswill be a better bet for you until you get decent at dancing becauseclubs are louder and the girls there are more concerned withappearances. While you probably won’t meet your dream girl in a baror club, you will gain enough experience in these venues to be more