natural extension of what you normally do. But if you work out hardand regularly drown in a sea of your own disgusting sweat, changinggears to focus on approaching may be difficult. There’s the mall.While this is the last place I would go to meet women, you may livein a place where the mall is your only option. Under the guise ofshopping for a female relative, you prowl stores asking femalesalespeople and girl shoppers for their opinion on various productsThen there’s everything else: airplanes and airports, buses,subways, outdoor park, restaurants, and even the street. Whereverwomen are, it is possible to approach them. The only limits to whereyou meet women exist in your head. I remember one time I got thenumber of a 17-year-old girl walking with a pizza while I sat in thepassenger side of my friends car. When it comes to finding girls,being creative is important because every man lives in a differentenvironment. You may not live in a big city with a couple hundredbars, but you do have that old town center where there are crowdedweekend concerts. The main idea is to go where the women are andfigure out the best way to approach them through experimentation. Toget you started, I’m going to share with you the best ways toapproach for the most common venues.

The Approach

It would make sense if I said that youshould take baby-steps before you start approaching. First you shouldlearn how to make eye contact with women. Then you should add asmile. Then you should practice saying "Hi." And while you’reat it, you should train yourself to be an outgoing people-person bychatting up random strangers in line with you at the conveniencestore. But I think all of that is a waste of time. You’ve probablybeen living in a nice social comfort zone for your entire life―thereis little point to continue that by taking it safe and easy. You mustdive right in and shock your system today. The next woman you talk to