When you are first starting out, it isbest to approach women who are not already connected to your life, sogirls from work or in your social circle should be avoided for now.Fail with them and gossip ensures that everyone you know finds outabout your attempt, something that may be traumatizing for a newstudent of the game. When I made my first few approaches, I hadlittle idea and no practice on how to interact with a new girl, buildattraction, or close, but I ended up talking to girls for an extendedperiod of time and getting numbers based on what I already knew as aman. When you want to get into a girls pants and your intent isstrong, you come up with ways in real time to keep the interactiongoing even though later on you may laugh at your attempt. You don’tneed to be a game expert to get laid. You don’t need to mastereverything in this book to start approaching girls. All you need is alittle bit of knowledge and the strong desire to succeed.
Realize that there will never be aperfect moment to approach. The idea of a "perfect moment" is abelief held by guys who never approach. If you sit there and waituntil the moment is right, you only end up psyching yourself outwhile her group gets larger, the situation gets more complicated, orshe ends up leaving. There is zero benefit to waiting more than fiveseconds when you spot a girl, unless she is running to the bathroomwith her hands over her mouth. As Teddy Roosevelt said, "Do whatyou can, with what you have, where you are." I approach girls whojust walk into bars, are on their way to the bathroom, or arefighting through a crowd to get a drink. When you see a girl you