like, pick the opener you want to use, go up to her, and deliver it.Even if your mind is completely blank, just say "Hey" becausethere is a chance she will help you out with conversation. Some guyshave the belief that girls don’t want to be approached, but itshouldn’t be up to her what you decide to do. If you like her, yougo up to her and put in an attempt. What she thinks really doesn’tmatter. An actual approach takes only a few seconds. You see a girlyou like, maneuver close to her, and then deliver your opening line.When it comes to learning how to approach, success is not measured bywhether you are able to get a conversation going, but whether youapproach or not. It’s the attempt that is much more important thanthe result. Just say the words. In the grand scheme of things, no oneapproach is going to break you. Each one is just a drop in thebucket, so don’t let a tough rejection get you down or detour youfrom your final goal.

To open, simply walk up to a girl, stoptwo feet away from her, look in her eyes, and say the line. She willsee you as you walk towards her and expect you to say something onceyou stop. Your body should face her at a slight glancing angle toshow that she still needs to prove herself before you give her yourcomplete attention. If you are planted and she is walking by you,make eye contact and deliver the line as she is still moving,understanding that it may take a second or two for her to realize youare talking to her. In both cases, speak loudly. Many times a girlseems to ignore you not because she was trying to snub you butbecause she didn’t hear you or didn’t know you were talking toher. In clubs, I practically have to yell the opener. You want tospeak loud enough so that there is zero doubt in her mind that youare talking to her. There are two multi-purpose openers that you canuse almost anywhere. The first: "Hey. You look like you are havingthe most fun here out of anyone." When used in a bar or club, it is