nervous and awkward around girls. What I didn’t realize is thatgirls do not see me the same way I see myself. While there areconsistent patterns for what makes humans attractive, your look isperceived differently in the eyes of different girls. This means thatwhile Jane thinks you are a hideous beast, Stacy may think you haveextra character. Rachel thinks you are big and awkward, but Laurenthinks you will be able to protect her. The first thing you see whenyou look in the mirror could be your big nose or balding head, butgirls don’t zero in on these features―they absorb your entirelook and presence. The insecure man, through his unattractive bodylanguage alone, is able to tell her that he is not a worthy sexualpartner. His meek eye contact and slouchy appearance is a physicalmanifestation of his thinking about himself and the importance ofappearance. Even if most females on the planet think you are amonster, it’s better to believe that looks don’t matter so thatyou are able to make a confident showing for the girls who don’tmind your appearance. With the addition of game, you will be able tosleep with girls whose first impression of your appearance is lessthan favorable. After getting into the game, I made some superficialchanges to my appearance. I lost my fuzzy mustache and cut my hair, Ibought trendy clubbing clothes, and I worked out at the gym to buildmuscle. But was I really becoming a better looking guy? I doubt it.When I compare pictures of myself now (shaggy, Jesus-looking) and oneyear after I entered the game, I looked more youthful, polished, andstylish then, during the time I got less sex. It’s your game thatplays the biggest role in making you appear more or less attractive.It really doesn’t matter if you are putting gel in your hair ornot. Now I get complimented on my appearance and approached fairlyregularly even though I put less energy into looking good than myNike sweatshirt days. If you think appearance is important and you