consider yourself unattractive, you’ve basically doomed yourself tospending most of your time behind a computer. You need to have thebelief that game, not appearance, is important, and proceed to go outthere and play the hand you are dealt. It’s true that the betterlooking you are, the easier things will be―you will be able to pullgirls on looks alone and say things that other guys would get drinksthrown on them for. The below-average looking man will have to workharder than the goodlooking man to get the same results. Instead ofonly approaching three girls to get a number, an unattractive man mayhave to approach ten.

While it isn’t fair that a man has towork harder because of bad genetic luck, consider the bright side:his game will be better and more honed than the good-looking guy whodidn’t have to work for it. Once his look fades, he won’t have asmuch to fall back on. Let’s say you have bad genetic luck with yourappearance. I’d compare you to a tennis athlete born with littlenatural ability. You have to practice six hours a day while thenatural practices for two hours, only for him to cream you in mostmatches. But because you are committed and disciplined, you stickwith the game and pull out enough wins to make money on the circuit.You will never be a superstar or top ten ranked player, but you willbe able to do what you enjoy, make an upper class living, and enjoysex from your stable of groupies.

Nature Vs Nurture

You may have the belief that you haveto be born with the ability to talk to women, that it’s either inyou or not. When you go to a bar and see a guy having the time of hislife, with both of his arms around beautiful girls, while you sitthere in the corner with a warm beer in your hand having not said aword to a pretty girl all week, it can be hard to imagine yourselfbeing just like him. One year after I got into the game I went to a