"Look, I’m sure with some work Ican be good at the game, but I just want to find one girl who is hotand nice. I don’t want to spend every week in some smoky clubtalking to a lot of snobby bitches."
This is a statement I hear often frommen who believe that they should get an immediate return on theirgame investment. But just like with stocks, it takes time to see anymeaningful return, especially since hot and nice girls are always inhigh demand. There is a very long line of guys out there who arewilling to do almost anything to be with quality girls, you included.What do you bring to the table? Can you attract her better thananother man? Why should she sleep with you? Unless you answered,"Because my game is tight and I think I’m the shit," you’renot going to get her. Simply being nice to her in hopes she wants tobang is not going to work. While she may not want a player, she doeswant a quality man who is experienced and knows what he’s doing.It’s important to realize that it will take a significantinvestment on your part before you start getting quality girls.
Talk to anyone about getting betterwith girls and the word "confidence" will be tossed out quickly.Confidence is believing you are capable, deserving, and worthy ofsuccess. A confident man dives into situations that are critical tohis goals, regardless of his perceived chance of failure. He rarelyshows fear or hesitation. His power is visible, with shoulders backand eyes up to face what crosses his path. When you interact with aconfident man, you become drawn into him not only because you thinkhe is successful, but because you think you will succeed just byspending time with him. Experience gives you confidence becauseexperience makes you capable. Once you are capable, you no longer go