wine festival with two female coworkers. I was approaching girlspretty regularly by then but it was mostly confined to loud clubs.Walking around this farm in Virginia on a 100 degree day, I saw atall, juicy girl wearing high-heel cork sandals matched with a skimpyoutfit. I noticed that girls were checking her out as much as theguys. I stalked her at this wine festival, fantasizing about her likeany other guy. An hour later I looked to my left and saw her standingunder a tent with her back towards me. I walked up to her from behindand touched her upper-back tattoo. I asked, "What does this mean?"I banged her three weeks later. I wouldn’t have believed you if youtold me a year earlier that I would pull one of the hottest girls ata huge wine festival by sneaking up on her and touching her. To methat would be impossible, something that just isn’t in me,something that I wasn’t born to do.

Not more than 10% of men have theinnate ability to talk to girls, build attraction, and rack up morenotches in a year than most men get in their lifetimes. To them,playing the game is not work―it’s like hanging out with friends.For reasons you can maybe trace to their genes, parents, orchildhood, they became very good with women, and possess a skill soingrained that they can’t even explain what it is they do. So whatoptions do the other 90% have, like myself? Do I settle for a fat,ugly woman? Do I wait until I meet a homely girl at work to marry? DoI get rich in the hopes that I can use my wealth to land a hot butshallow girl? Or do I study the game like I would study a subject inschool? You don’t need to be born with game―like sailing ormotorcycle riding you can become proficient at it with practice andtraining. If you think you have flaws that prevent you from becominggood, realize that the naturals have flaws as well. When guys see meapproach pretty girls in a bar with ease, they don’t attribute myability to years of practice; they tell me I was born to do this,