into situations fearful expecting failure. Instead, you feel goodabout your odds. This is why the phrase "fake it ‘till you makeit" is popular in self-improvement circles; until you get "real"confidence that results from an increasing amount of success, "fake"your confidence and attempt enough experiences that will eventuallylead to that success. How can you go from zero confidence to havingenough to approach beautiful women? The best way is to be successfulwith women. Nothing gives you more confidence than banging a hotgirl. If you are not there yet, the other way is to improve how youlook. There are no other ways!

Earlier I discussed that appearance isnot that important. This is still true when it comes to attractinggirls, but a relative improvement in your appearance will give you ashort-term confidence boost. This boost helps you do things likeapproach girls. You goal is to improve your self-image with a changethat puts you in a better mood to approach and game. This can be inthe form of lasting improvements like working out at the gym (a veryreliable confidence booster), or more superficial changes that getsyou excited about going out, like changing your hair style, growingfacial hair, or buying a new outfit. Right now you only need enoughconfidence to make that first cold approach. Then you build off thatfirst approach to push further, until you are approaching higherquality girls in tough situations. Very soon your confidence comesfrom minor successes that give you the motivation and drive tocontinue. Even things like having a two-minute conversation with abombshell is a success that you will build off of. The confidenceboost gets you in the game, but it’s the sexual successes whichkeeps you in, giving you a more permanent confidence that lasts. Yourconfidence will build like a snowball rolling down a hill.

Alphas And Betas

If you’ve ever watched The DiscoveryChannel, you’ve seen a program featuring the gorilla species with